✦✧Are my friends just using me?
Always the lift, the listener, the one who pays? Follow our little otter through 12 moments of friendship, effort and putting the backpack down.
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Friendship, or a full-time favour?
Being a generous friend can feel lovely. Being available only when somebody needs a favour can feel very different. This are-my-friends-using-me quiz explores the balance between giving and receiving, with twelve illustrated moments guided by a little blue otter. Think of one friend or one group as you answer questions about support, invitations, saying no and how you feel after spending time together. Your result reflects the pattern you describe and offers practical prompts for clearer conversations and boundaries. It does not claim to know anyone’s private motives, and it leaves room for busy seasons, different ways of caring and misunderstandings.
A few little answers
Can the quiz prove that a friend is using me?
No. It can reflect patterns in what you describe, such as contact mainly around favours or repeated dismissal of your needs. It cannot establish another person’s intentions. Use the result as a starting point for reflection, a conversation or a boundary you choose.
Should I think about one friend or my whole group?
Either works, but choose one focus and keep it consistent through the questions. If two friendships feel very different, taking the quiz separately for each can help you avoid blending unrelated patterns into one result.
Is the quiz free, and how much is the full result?
The questions and your personal sneak peek are free. A full result costs €1.99 or US$1.99 once. Lovetest Club costs €1.99 or US$1.99 per week, with all results included while active. Choose EUR or USD before checkout. Your subscription renews weekly in the currency you chose until you cancel; changing the website currency does not change an existing subscription.
Does a friendship have to be equally balanced every day?
No. People go through demanding seasons and may show care differently. The test asks about the pattern over time, whether your needs have room to exist and how your friends respond when you state a limit or ask for support.